Love and Anger


Wouldn’t it be nice if love was like it is in fairy tales and “We all live happily ever after?” Alas, life is not. This quote from my one of my books sums up the happily ever after theory, “Relationships are where we humans get our greatest education.” Everyone has positive and negative emotions that need to be expressed appropriately. It’s too bad that we aren’t always taught how to do that in childhood.

Anger is almost always our reaction to circumstances, underneath all that anger is often feelings such as fear, hurt, and sadness. People express anger in different ways that range from the silent treatment to violent rage. It’s important to work on anger issues in order not to hurt others.

I was taught, like many women, that ~ Read the rest at SW Experts

The Love Channel: Answers to Your Relationship Questions

Love channel Belle

 Hi Pamela:

I have some relationship questions for you. What do you see for my boyfriend and me at this point in our relationship? Do you see us in this for the long run? Do you see us together in the future or see what feelings he has for us at this point?


Dear Stella:

The energy I am getting on your relationship questions is it feels short yet long. I hope this makes sense. I heard two songs to validate this: “We’ve only just begun,” and “It’s been such a long time.” Now I heard – past life, which means you have been together before.

You must be very audible because I am hearing a lot already. I heard jealousy and Billy Joel’s song, “Honesty it’s such a lonely word and mostly what I need from you.” This is coming up in the reading because these issues need to be worked on. If it is not addressed ~ Read the rest at Bellesprit Magazine

In the Dreamtime – May 2015 Dream Interpretation


Each month Pamela offers a dream interpretation for your dreams! This month’s column takes a look at where skin is peeling off and time machines are taking us to the past. If you haven’t got a clue to what I am talking about, read on…


The only thing I remember about the dream is that I was peeling the skin off of my face from a sunburn. The skin was coming off in large portions so I took the skin and weaved it into a beanie type cap that would fit on top of the head. I offered the beanie to a friend who seemed reluctant to accept it after learning what it was made of. I’m curious as to what is the dream interpretation for this very weird dream.

Read the interpretation at Bellesprit Magazine

Why Pivotshare Got My Video Business


I have been talking to my partner about doing video tutorials for a couple of years. When I finally started it, I’m sure I drove him crazy during the process! Whew, it is a lot of work: planning the video, filming the video, creating images, at times creating audio for the slide show, and editing the video. My computer tech honey taught me some techniques and I learned a few things on my own.

I thought I was going to go with one video platform (not saying which one) because it is well known, high up in Google pages, and has traffic from other video authors. They also let you do it your way. I even used their name in a couple videos, which I later edited. I sent them an email about a month ago and never got a reply, “Strange,” I thought. I uploaded my two minutes and twenty-four second Welcome video. I kept checking for the video to finish uploading. The next morning it still wasn’t done. I sent an email to the technical department. Two days later I got disgusted and investigated other platforms.

What I liked about Pivotshare is that they don’t charge a monthly fee; the other platform did for the plan I wanted. Their video channels are very professional looking, they accept a wide variety of video formats (not the other platform), and they pay the same seventy percentage as the other. Their tutorials are a lot easier to follow. Everyone has their own channel to avoid competition, and you can always make the channel into in the future. It seemed like a good fit.

I sent them an email asking five questions about their service. They got back to me two hours later with answers to all five questions! I signed up immediately and started creating my channel. I received a welcome email a few hours later from one of the managers. He asked me how I planned on marketing it and later sent me a marketing guide. I love their customer service.

The next day, I had loaded two videos very quickly and was awaiting for the third one to finish. I decided to check my email. Lo and behold, there was an email from the other platform! It took four days for them to answer my email. What is really unbelievable is that the reply said it can take up to twenty four hours for a video to load! That was confirmation that I had made the right choice.

There are three video tutorials and a Welcome video on my channel. Please check the channel often because more are coming to expand the video library. One tutorial is free! Click to go to Pamela Cummins Channel and let me know what you think.


The Energy of Sex

Energy of Sex

Let’s face it, sex feels good. Can you remember the first time you discovered how good your privates felt? It feels even better when you have a partner to help you. But, did you know that there is more than something physical going on during the act? There is the energetic component to it.

Scientist says that you can’t destroy energy, however you can change its form. Psychics, energy healers, and Reiki practitioners all use this energy. Healers sense the person’s energy in order to heal. Psychics read the energy to give messages. Each psychic and healer does this in their own unique way, whether they sense the energy with their five senses or six senses.  They can do this in person, over the phone, an email, or in a meditation. The energy has no distance which is the reason psychic and energy practitioners can heal and/or read around the world.

What does this have to do with sex? Read the rest at SW Experts

Our Most Powerful Mother


Kwan Yin


Mother’s Day is celebrated on May 10th this month. Mothers are special people. Mothers give birth and raise children. They also put up with a lot of crap from their children. A mother’s love is so powerful. But the greatest of all mothers is the Goddess.

So what do I mean by the Goddess? My personal definition is the feminine side of the creator. Here is a Wikipedia definition – A goddess is a female deity. While they have been, are and may be associated with as wide a range of phenomena as male deities, including war, destruction and death as well as creation, life-giving, healing and compassion, they have more commonly been associated with the Earth, fertility, motherhood and love.

Many moons ago (over twenty years), I was investigating and studying different types of religion and spirituality. Back then, I had trouble with Western religion because it was so male dominated. It was hard for me to relate to God being so masculine because I was a woman. When I studied the Goddess that felt right to me and it was so much easier to relate to. Today my Higher Power is an aspect of God and the Goddess. I have angered people by saying, “God is a he-she.” But what God, the Creator, the Great I Am – really is to me is total Love and Light. I go to my Higher Power to be safe, loved, and accepted.

The Goddess has many aspects; just like a woman does. She is a child (maiden), mother, and wise woman (crone). The Goddess is very loving, kind, and compassionate. But she also has the mother instinct to protect her young and hell has no fury like a mother protecting her child. Although, the Goddess has many aspects and names, she is one. Just like God has many names.

The Goddess was worshipped long before a male God. When I learned about the Goddess, she helped me get in touch with my feminine side. She can do that for you whether you are a man or a woman because it is important for you to balance the male and female within.

The following is a quick summary of seven Goddesses:

Isis is my favorite Goddess and the one I resonate with the most. She was worshipped in Egypt. She is magic, love, family, sexuality, and keeper of the home.

Kwan Yin is a Chinese Goddess who chose to help humankind instead of becoming one with the creator. Her main role is compassion.

Lakshmi is a popular Goddess in India. You can call upon her to help you with financial problems because her specialty is abundance.

Bast is another Egyptian Goddess and is a cat. She is used for protection Goddess.

Brigit is a Celtic known as a protector and triple Goddess. The triple has many aspects and is not only used for the maiden, mother, and crone.

Aphrodite – is the Goddess of love known for her beauty and alluring sexuality. She was worshipped in Greece. The Romans called her Venus.

Kali is feared by some in India because she is known as the destroyer. But Kali represents the endings we must face in order to start a new.

All of the Goddess above has interesting stories and much more detail about what they represent. There are also many more Goddesses that represent the one Goddess. I encourage you to learn more about them. It is good to see how they are an aspect of you, whether you choose to worship them or not. I find some value in all religions, whether it is Western, Eastern, or the Goddess because I am an interfaith minister. You can take what resonates with you the most and leave the rest behind. The important thing is to harm none and treat all with respect.

All women have Brigit within them. Whether that is flesh, blood, and bones. Or the potential to be maiden, mother, and Crone. The majority of females have the compassion of Kwan Yin. In order for women to become mothers, they need to have beauty (within to radiate without) and be sexual, just like Aphrodite. Women yearn to become like Isis of their home and family. Ladies protect their loved ones with Bast attitude. We desire and create Lakshmi abundance in some form. All women have the fierceness of Kali and the ability to destroy. And we all have to end in order to begin again.

I honor the Goddess and Mother within you!

This article is from Off the Cuff Mays Issue

Attention Amazon Shoppers outside the USA

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At the end of March, Amazon finally price matched Pamela’s Love Collection and made it free. I was thrilled that my gift to the world was available on Amazon. So you can imagine my surprise, when yesterday I discovered I had made money from a sale in Canada from the supposedly free eBook!

Amazon only made Pamela’s Love Collection free in the United States. My profit on that sale was a big thirty-nine cents, whoopee. Whoever that customer was I wish I could refund your money! I would apologize, but I do not have control over what Amazon policies are.

If you live outside of the USA, please do not pay for it. The eBook is available free at Barnes and Nobles, iBooks, Kobo, Google Play, and Smashwords. You can even read it online at Smashwords without creating an account. Although, I would suggest creating an account because there are some awesome authors there.

The above eBook store links are available on my website. Happy reading!


The Love Channel ~ April 2015

Love channel Belle







Dear Pamela,

I am travelling to Altea in Spain at Easter and, for some time, I have felt that my daughter and I will be meeting a significant love interest each. Do you see this too? Also, I feel a relocation to that area may happen.  I would value your insight on this please.

Mom and Daughter

Dear Mom and Daughter:

I’m hearing the song by 10CC, “The things we do for love.”  And I hear Steve Miller sing, “Look through the window, tell me what do you see?” and getting a vision of a big glass window that has a road with houses. What that means is make sure you want to really move because there is love in your own back yard. I see lots of men lined up at your door with tickets in their hand. I hear an announcer say, “We have a winner!” I see a man holding up a golden ticket, jumping up in down with excitement. He is now at your door on one knee while the other leg is bent, you are standing, and he grabs your hand and kisses it. With that, I am hearing Mr. Rogers sing, “Who are the people in your neighborhood.”

Your daughter is another story! Read more in Bellesprit Magazine

In the Dream Time


It is interesting that in this month’s column at the beginning of spring, a dreamer sent in a dream about giving birth to a baby. Could she really be giving birth? Or is a symbolism like spring of new beginnings? Perhaps it is both? Read on to find out.


I dreamed I had a baby boy with lots of beautiful black hair, he was smiling at me and very happy. I was overjoyed with happiness. I was talking about how long and beautiful his hair was and how I was going to style it.

There were other girls in the same room that had given birth.  We were told to go to this other room to pick a husband. In the dream that didn’t seem odd, but when I woke up and I had given it some thought, it was very peculiar. I studied all the males and determined I didn’t need a husband or a male figure to help me care for my baby, we were fine on our own.

After thinking about this dream, I was wondering how I had this baby without a man. I also think this has something to do with my independence and not having a man in life for a long duration.  What is your interpretation?

Read the interpretation in Bellesprit Magazine