#IndieBooksBeSeen ~ Support Indie Authors


Today, Indie authors around the planet are bombarding social media with pictures of themselves and their books. It is so amazing to see the support from readers all over social media too, please support an Indie author! Indie authors decided to honor their writing because they did not want to spend years to find an agent and/or publisher. They refused to let a publisher tell them how to write their book, choose their book cover, give them a small percentage of profits, and do very little promoting of their book.

My photo journey to find a photo I like was an adventure. My partner and I went to Crotan Point in Cedar Point, NC on a very humid day. He is very patient because we took a zillion pictures, before I found one that I liked – just like a woman not to like any pictures of herself!

One of the many bridges in Crotan Point.Twitter Header

I used this photo in my Twitter header a long time ago ~ @RevPamela




My partner liked this picture, my father and niece preferred the top one. I thought it was okay. 



The Crazy Cat Lady inside of me had to get pictures of my fur babies to Rhiannon’s horror! They do not make a photo session easy!

Crop Merlin & books

Merlin aka “The Bruiser”

Rhainnon Crop

“Don’t take my picture!”









My books are available in eBook and print, to get the links visit http://www.successfulrel.com/books/



How a Man Shows He Loves You

Man Loves You


“Does he love me?” is a popular question my clients ask me. The answer will vary for each reading because each relationship is different. I have seen many women get frustrated because the man they are dating doesn’t express his feeling, open up to them, or says he loves her. One woman told me that her fantasy man she wants to manifest would tell her he loves her every day and leave her love poems. How many ladies would like that?

Male poets who express their feelings are out there, however, the bulk of men are not like that. A married man might tell his wife in private that he loves her every day, yet may have trouble saying it in public, please remember it took years for him to get to that place. In the courtship phase it is much different. A warning to those who just started dating a man who says they love them within the first two months. Love at first sight is rare, lust at first sight is more common. That kind of love/lust is what keeps the population going. We, humans, usually do not fall in love, we grow into love.

The vast majority of men shows their love in – Read the rest at SW Experts

The Love Channel – Finding Love and a Relationship

Love channel Belle

This month Love Expert Pamela Cummins answers questions from our readers about finding love and entering into a relationship.


Dear Pamela:

My name is June. I have been divorced for four years and I am having no luck at finding love again. Will I ever find someone and how long will it be before I find it?

Thank you very much,

Dear June:

I got two things immediately, while reading your question. The first thing I heard was ~ read the rest at Bellesprit Magazine

Honesty in Relationships

couple-307287_640When I went for my walk today, I was thinking what I could write for my June’s Off the Cuff article. My guides played Billy Joel’s song lyric – Honesty is such a lonely word and mostly what I need from you. So honesty it is. Here is Merrian-Webster definition of honesty in their dictionary – the quality of being fair and truthful, the quality of being honest, fairness and straightforwardness of conduct, and adherence to the facts.

The first person you need to be honest with is yourself. Are you thinking that is a no brainer? I agree, but we lie to ourselves all the time. We lie about what we want to do with our lives, that something doesn’t matter to us, or we don’t need love. We also are not always honest with others. How often did you avoid being truthful to avoid hurting someone’s feelings and tell a little white lie? Who really wants to tell someone their butt does look big in those pants!

Two of the most important things to be honest with for yourself about, is ~ Read the rest at Off the Cuff e-zine

Love and Anger


Wouldn’t it be nice if love was like it is in fairy tales and “We all live happily ever after?” Alas, life is not. This quote from my one of my books sums up the happily ever after theory, “Relationships are where we humans get our greatest education.” Everyone has positive and negative emotions that need to be expressed appropriately. It’s too bad that we aren’t always taught how to do that in childhood.

Anger is almost always our reaction to circumstances, underneath all that anger is often feelings such as fear, hurt, and sadness. People express anger in different ways that range from the silent treatment to violent rage. It’s important to work on anger issues in order not to hurt others.

I was taught, like many women, that ~ Read the rest at SW Experts

The Love Channel: Answers to Your Relationship Questions

Love channel Belle

 Hi Pamela:

I have some relationship questions for you. What do you see for my boyfriend and me at this point in our relationship? Do you see us in this for the long run? Do you see us together in the future or see what feelings he has for us at this point?


Dear Stella:

The energy I am getting on your relationship questions is it feels short yet long. I hope this makes sense. I heard two songs to validate this: “We’ve only just begun,” and “It’s been such a long time.” Now I heard – past life, which means you have been together before.

You must be very audible because I am hearing a lot already. I heard jealousy and Billy Joel’s song, “Honesty it’s such a lonely word and mostly what I need from you.” This is coming up in the reading because these issues need to be worked on. If it is not addressed ~ Read the rest at Bellesprit Magazine

In the Dreamtime – May 2015 Dream Interpretation


Each month Pamela offers a dream interpretation for your dreams! This month’s column takes a look at where skin is peeling off and time machines are taking us to the past. If you haven’t got a clue to what I am talking about, read on…


The only thing I remember about the dream is that I was peeling the skin off of my face from a sunburn. The skin was coming off in large portions so I took the skin and weaved it into a beanie type cap that would fit on top of the head. I offered the beanie to a friend who seemed reluctant to accept it after learning what it was made of. I’m curious as to what is the dream interpretation for this very weird dream.

Read the interpretation at Bellesprit Magazine

Why Pivotshare Got My Video Business


I have been talking to my partner about doing video tutorials for a couple of years. When I finally started it, I’m sure I drove him crazy during the process! Whew, it is a lot of work: planning the video, filming the video, creating images, at times creating audio for the slide show, and editing the video. My computer tech honey taught me some techniques and I learned a few things on my own.

I thought I was going to go with one video platform (not saying which one) because it is well known, high up in Google pages, and has traffic from other video authors. They also let you do it your way. I even used their name in a couple videos, which I later edited. I sent them an email about a month ago and never got a reply, “Strange,” I thought. I uploaded my two minutes and twenty-four second Welcome video. I kept checking for the video to finish uploading. The next morning it still wasn’t done. I sent an email to the technical department. Two days later I got disgusted and investigated other platforms.

What I liked about Pivotshare is that they don’t charge a monthly fee; the other platform did for the plan I wanted. Their video channels are very professional looking, they accept a wide variety of video formats (not the other platform), and they pay the same seventy percentage as the other. Their tutorials are a lot easier to follow. Everyone has their own channel to avoid competition, and you can always make the channel into dot.com in the future. It seemed like a good fit.

I sent them an email asking five questions about their service. They got back to me two hours later with answers to all five questions! I signed up immediately and started creating my channel. I received a welcome email a few hours later from one of the managers. He asked me how I planned on marketing it and later sent me a marketing guide. I love their customer service.

The next day, I had loaded two videos very quickly and was awaiting for the third one to finish. I decided to check my email. Lo and behold, there was an email from the other platform! It took four days for them to answer my email. What is really unbelievable is that the reply said it can take up to twenty four hours for a video to load! That was confirmation that I had made the right choice.

There are three video tutorials and a Welcome video on my channel. Please check the channel often because more are coming to expand the video library. One tutorial is free! Click to go to Pamela Cummins Channel and let me know what you think.


The Energy of Sex

Energy of Sex

Let’s face it, sex feels good. Can you remember the first time you discovered how good your privates felt? It feels even better when you have a partner to help you. But, did you know that there is more than something physical going on during the act? There is the energetic component to it.

Scientist says that you can’t destroy energy, however you can change its form. Psychics, energy healers, and Reiki practitioners all use this energy. Healers sense the person’s energy in order to heal. Psychics read the energy to give messages. Each psychic and healer does this in their own unique way, whether they sense the energy with their five senses or six senses.  They can do this in person, over the phone, an email, or in a meditation. The energy has no distance which is the reason psychic and energy practitioners can heal and/or read around the world.

What does this have to do with sex? Read the rest at SW Experts